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First Prize?

While performing in Schenectady, New York, a couple of weekends ago, I drove by this restaurant, which, as far as I can tell, could be: “First Prize Mike’s Frankfurts along with First Prize Hots with our Sauce” or… “First Prize Franfurts” and also “Mike’s First Prize Hots with Our Sauce” Or maybe just “First Prize…

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Creativity cannot be defined

“Sweet Child O’ Mine,” the iconic song from Guns N’ Roses’ 1987 album Appetite for Destruction, has a fascinating creative story. The opening guitar riff—possibly one of rock and roll’s most famous guitar rights—was not planned or even written. The band’s guitarist, Slash, used that opening riff to tune and warm up. One day, the…

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Take care of your future self

A friend sent me a photo of this post-it, written by his daughter. __________________________ Dear Future Self, Have a good lunch. Hope you did well on your science test 2-day. Sincerely, 7:30 AM Alana __________________________ His daughter has heard me speak about the importance of “taking care of your future self.” I’m a big believer…

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Four life lessons

I visited my friend’s high school English class this week. I talked about storytelling, writing, and creative productivity. I also answered questions about my life. But as I often do, I also shared life lessons — organically, of course. Someone asks me a question, or something is said, and in response, I fire off a…

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Best gift is a great movie recommendation

Years ago, my friend Shep told me to watch the movie “Hot Fuzz.” I had never heard of the film or its director, Edgar Wright, but knowing Shep, I decided to give it a shot. Elysha and I sat down and watched the movie and loved every minute of it. I’ve rewatched it several times…

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Anonymity means a lack of psychological safety

Here’s a good rule of thumb for your business or organization: If you need to allow the people in your organization to remain anonymous while completing an employee satisfaction survey, a professional development evaluation, or any other kind of workplace appraisal in order to receive honest feedback, your organization lacks psychological safety. The need for…

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First rule of unkindness

The number of times when you say something unkind about a friend or colleague – and then that bit of unkindness makes its way back to the person to whom you directed the unkind remark – is staggering. In other words, say something unkind about someone, and that someone will often find out exactly what…

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Apology note artistry

Sometimes, the apology note is so spectacular that you find yourself grateful for the transgression.

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Charlie is expanding in a very good way

Charlie competed in his second cubing competition this weekend in Ridgefield, Connecticut. He competed in the 2×2, 3×3 (the classic Rubik’s cube), Pyraminx, and clock events. Although he didn’t make the second round in any of his events, he set two personal bests. He also served as judge and runner for several rounds of the…

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Elysha has joined a less-than-auspicious club

Elysha was hit by a car last week. Her car wasn’t hit by a car. She was hit by a car. While crossing a parking lot from Dunkin Donuts to her car, coffee in hand, a car hit her. He punched her with its bumper. Knocked her onto the pavement hard enough to send others…

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