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I deserve better

One of my students said that I’m “a wretched man with lifeless eyes.” Later that day, I told Clara what my student said. Her response: “Only sometimes.” Children are terrible.

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Three best parenting decisions

Last week, I posted my lessons learned after 15 years of parenting. Today, I’ll add this (upon request from the parent of a newborn and a pregnant mother): The Three Most Important Parenting Decisions Elysha and I Have Ever Made Decision #1: We found a way to allow Elysha to remain home for Clara’s first…

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Scouting in 2024

Charlie is away this weekend, camping with the Scouts. He’s actually sleeping in a cabin, so I don’t really think of it as camping. In my hundreds of nights spent camping outdoors as a Boy Scout, I never once slept in a cabin. Never enjoyed heat, indoor plumbing, or electricity of any kind. Tents, lean-tos,…

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St. Paul’s All Women City Council

Have you heard the news out of St. Paul, Minnesota? For the first time in the capital city’s history, the people of St. Paul have elected an all-female City Council. In fact, St. Paul is believed to be among the largest cities in the country to have an all-female city council. But the firsts do…

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36 Lessons Learned While Parenting

My daughter celebrated her fifteenth birthday yesterday – January 25. Happy birthday, Clara. When she turned two years old, I posted a list of lessons learned from two years of parenting. I updated that list when she turned five. Then again, when she turned ten. Five years after that, I update it again. ______________________ 1.…

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Messages from readers sometimes even surprise me

There’s nothing unusual with someone: Purchasing Storyworthy – my book on storytelling Reading to the end of chapter 2 Downloading The Moth app Listening to the latest episode from the organization where I told my first story That happens a lot. I know so because I’m told similar things by many of my readers. If…

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Rest in Peace, Danny Pollock

My childhood friend, Danny, passed away last week. I last saw Danny at Yawgoog Scout Reservation two years ago, where he and I spent so many glorious summer days. Danny and I had planned to see each other again this summer at the annual camp reunion. Instead, I’ll be thinking about my friend as I…

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Bomb threats are always made by cowards

Simple but important: A lot of judges, election workers, politicians, attorneys general, and similar public servants are receiving a great many bomb and death threats these days. Can we all agree that people who make these kinds of threats are lowlife cowards? I think the message needs to be loud and clear: Anyone who anonymously…

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Uncomfortable Plot Summaries

One of the best ways to construct a story is to first define the purpose and plot in its simplest form: “I needed to find the perfect gift for my wife, then I found that perfect gift.” “I needed to find the perfect gift for my wife, but I failed to find anything she would…

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Sabatoge productivity one stupid decision at a time

In their book, Simple Sabotage: A Modern Field Manual for Detecting and Rooting Out Everyday Behaviors That Undermine Your Workplace, Robert M. Galford and Cary Greene examine the “Simple Sabotage Field Manual,” a guide published by the OSS (the predecessor of the CIA) in 1944 to assist European spies undermine the Axis powers from within.…

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