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The curtain raised on peeing with girls

I was at a Moth StorySLAM in Cambridge last week and I found myself in a gender-neutral restroom, which I have used many, many times. Men and women peeing in the same room. Stalls and urinals. It was a little surprising the first time I entered this restroom and encountered women, but two years later,…

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There is no reason to delay the use of signage like this.

I understand that not everyone is ready for universal restrooms. While I may use a restroom at a place like Oberon in Cambridge, MA, which has a large restroom of stalls and urinals used by all genders simultaneously, it’s simply too much for some people. When genitals are privately exposed for the purpose of elimination,…

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I went to the bathroom alongside a bunch of ladies, and something surprising happened.

I competed last night at a Moth StorySLAM at The Oberon in Cambridge, MA.  The Oberon has two restrooms. When I started performing there in 2013, these restrooms were identified by placards as “Men” and “Women.” About a year ago, the “Men” and “Women” placards were replaced with placards that read “All Gender.” Since then,…

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Firemen became firefighters. Penmanship became handwriting. Great. But there’s one gender neutral word I can’t support.

Firemen became firefighters.A serious improvement. I’d rather be a firefighter than a fireman.  Stewardess became flight attendant.Also an improvement.   Policemen became police officer.A solid choice. I’d rather call a police officer for help than a policeman.  Mailman became mail carrier. Fine. More descriptive, even. Penmanship became handwriting.A more modern alternative.   Waiter and waitress became server. I don’t…

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