Commitment, persistence, and practice can look a lot like talent. Don’t be fooled.

I love this video so much.

I love this guy so much. If I owned a company—any company—and was hiring, this is the person I would hire.

So much of life comes down to grit. Persistence. Commitment. Tenaciousness. Practice. Yet so few seem willing to put in the time.

I write novels. Though some may argue this requires a certain degree of talent, I would argue that the most important attribute I possess is the willingness to commit my ass to a chair for a long period of time.

Truthfully, I believe it’s been my willingness to sit in a relentless, non-precious, non-idealized way for an incredibly long time that has led me to my writing career.

I started writing in late November of 1988 when I was 17 years old, and it is not an exaggeration to say that I have written every single day of my life since then.

I have not missed a day.

Wedding day. Birth of my children. Death of my mother. Pneumonias. Honeymoon. Vacation. Concussions. Homelessness.

I have not missed a day.

When I was younger, I wrote in journals. I wrote letters. Short stories, Newsletters. Poems. Zines. Dungeons & Dragons adventures. Comics. My classmates’ term papers (my first paid writing gig).

In 1990 I began blogging on an early version of the Internet known as a Bulletin Board System.

In 2004, I took a graduate-level class on blogging and began blogging regularly, first at a blog entitled Perpetual Perpetuity, and then Conform Me Not, and now here. Since 2004, I have not missed a day.

I started writing at 17. I published my first novel at 39.

Talent?

It took me 22 years of constant, consistent, relentless daily practice before any publisher took an interest in my work. Maybe I’m a talented writer, or maybe I simply forged myself through hard work into someone who looks like one.

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