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Where do all the rebels go?
A question I ask myself all the damn time is this: “Where did all the rebels go?” While I certainly know some people who remain Read More

Whatever happens. That’s the plan.
“Jurassic Park: World Dominion” is not a great movie, but it makes for perfect entertainment to consume while exercising. It was while I was exercising Read More

How to seek feedback
I know a storyteller named Rob who frequently performs at The Moth in Boston. He’s excellent — the kind of storyteller whose name I hope Read More

Join my Substack
Join my Substack and get a peek behind the creative curtain: Learn about how disparate ideas combine to become blog posts, LinkedIn posts, magazine articles, Read More

Our song, unexpected and unforgettable
We stepped into Place Jacques-Cartier in Old Montreal — a large, beautiful square near the Saint Lawrence River lined by twinkling lights, bustling restaurants, and Read More

Stick to the script
I travel a lot. In the last three months, I have traveled to Miami, Toronto, Pittsburgh, Cleveland, Washington, DC, Toronto again, and Victoria. Next week Read More

Patriarchy at the car dealership
While I was working in Pittsburgh last month, Elysha went shopping for a new car. Her car was 14 years old and not running well. Read More

Resolution update: July 2025
Every month, I record my progress toward my yearly goals to hold myself accountable and occasionally seek help and advice from readers who are willing Read More

Grace under pressure. Excellence amid uncertainty.
I spent the last four days in Victoria, Canada, at an incredible conference called IP3 hosted by business titan and thought leader Andrew Wilkinson, who Read More

Advice on thank you notes
I am a frequent writer of thank-you notes. Thank you letters, too — whole pages of appreciation. I love writing thank-you notes. I love thanking Read More

Unexpected media gifts are also perfect gifts
One of the best gifts you can ever give to someone — better than a cashmere sweater, a digital doodad, or a gift card — Read More

A rose by any other name…
I’m in Victoria, Canada, at IP3, a conference hosted by Andrew Wilkinson, founder of Tiny and a friend. I was lucky enough to fly first Read More

“Talkers are no good doers.”
“Talkers are no good doers.” This line, from Shakespeare’s “Richard III,” is one everyone who seeks to make something should take to heart. Years ago, Read More

The little bit of good stuff about Star Trek
I am not a fan of Star Trek. I’ve watched the original series and parts of the later series, as well as several of the Read More

Angeli for the win!
I’ve had the pleasure of spending the last few months working with a lawyer and public speaker named Angeli. She’s been competing in Toastmasters events Read More

Government is good, even though it’s sometimes stupid.
In 2016, the Metropolitan Transportation Authority planned to spend $250 million on a project that would turn several New York bridges into an intricate light Read More

Weird Al’s journey is just as weird as Weird Al himself
Weird Al Yankovic is embarking on a major tour this summer: The Bigger and Weirder Tour He hasn’t released a significant amount of music in Read More

I’ve hung up my revenge shingle for anyone in need
Slate magazine is engaged in Revenge Week. Sort of like Shark Week, except the focus is on revenge. And somehow, a Slate editor identified me Read More

Guys love Charlie’s love of music
On Saturday night, Charlie and I attended the Styx concert in Mansfield, Massachusetts. REO Speedwagon and Don Felder of The Eagles opened the show. It Read More

How to replicate my career
I received an email last week from a person who essentially asked, “I’d love to have your career as a storyteller and consultant. Can you Read More