I know this isn’t the most traditional of productivity tips, but if this applies to you, the following advice may save you more time than any other productivity tip I could ever offer.
If you are dating someone who the great majority of your friends does not like, stop dating this person immediately.
In the history of human civilization, there has never been a boyfriend or girlfriend who someone’s closest friends hated or did not trust who they eventually came to love.
When it comes to romantic relationships, group consensus is always correct.